curing a broken heart
by Michael Robin Cooke on Jul.25, 2009, under Kitschchaos
Can magic be used to cure a broken heart?
I don’t know. I would suggest that yes, it is possible – but I’d never even try. Why? Because I know I want to love again, and I can’t move past a broken heart to be able to love again by taking short-cuts.
From the age I was 30 to the age of 41 I was in a monogamous relationship with a man I still love. He broke up with me because he loved me, the relationship had problems and he decided he couldn’t give me what I needed (and no, I still don’t really understand).
It’s still painful. But by facing the pain and not fearing it I’m not setting myself up to avoid commitment in the future, I’m not setting myself up to carry baggage into every new relationship I have.
And no, a great new relationship is no panacea. Give yourself time to mourn the lost relationship. The pain will be there until you own it, and get used to the idea of being alone. Moving on to a new relationship won’t end the pain.
But do move on.
A famous Hoodoo root, the High John the Conqueror root. I’ve been carrying this root, ‘feeding’ it with my semen and hoyt’s cologne, sleeping with it. I can feel it enhancing my sex appeal and personal power. Since carrying the root I’ve attracted a great many suitors online, beautiful young men that want me and should be out of my league.(I’m isolated on a rural farm and no car so don’t get out much).
Yes, I do have from this experience one specific man I like very much, more than the rest, and I’m going to date him and hope for serious romance.
Straight men have told me it does the same for them, attracting many interested women.
There’s many love spells you can cast, but I believe the High John the conqueror root is very helpful.
Hoodoo Love spells and High John the conqueror root are available at http://luckymojo.com
Of course sigil magic always works too for attracting love, Here’s an article on Sigil Magic
You can scratch your sigil on a pink (for romance) or red (for sex) candle, and masturbate looking at the sigil on paper and on or over a piece of paper the sigil is drawn put your sexual fluids, visualizing your new lover – burn the sigil with your sexual fluids in the red or pink candle.
I have gotten past my lost love. It did take time, most of a year really. The distinctions of Buddhism were helpful. I wouldn’t have wanted to have been cured ‘instantly’, the way I got over the loss is the healthiest way I believe. The pain of a broken heart is a pain of being attached to another person in a different circumstance. And ultimately it’s selfish, you may interpret it as love pangs, but if you loved the other person you’d have their best interest at heart – it may be with someone else. Certainly the loving thing to do if your loved one leaves you is to give them no reason for guilt, move on – be happy.
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July 27th, 2009 on 3:24 pm
No, sorry. I don’t believe you can cure a broken heart by magic – only time can do that. And a half assed job it does too.
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July 28th, 2009 on 11:36 am
Well, the problem is that magic is subjective and thereby defies rigorous evaluation. So it’s really tough to suggest what magic can and cannot do.
Generally, when evaluating what’s possible for magic, I’d look for the ‘pathways to fulfilment’ – ’cause I interpret magic as life and if you have a goal and a way to get there, magic will help and if there is no way to get there, magic may not. But even then, the strongest word I can use is ‘may’. Magic can scare you.
When it comes to ‘curing a broken heart’ – I’m sure both of us know people that have done so at the cost of their humanity. I’ve known people attempt to cut out their emotions and never let another person get close to them again. There are forms of insanity where the circumstance of a broken heart would be radically transformed or not even possible. Certainly if you are dead, the painful emotions are gone as well.
So I believe there’s no ‘good’ way to cure a broken heart magically. But the context of living through the experience compared to the alternative, is all good. It’s a growing experience, you’re a better person and a better partner for surviving it.
July 28th, 2009 on 11:43 am
In my personal experience, the paradigm of Zen Buddhism has been very helpful.
The most simple premise of Buddhism is that attachment is suffering. And the broken heart is a very clear example of this.
So, personally – understanding that my hurt feelings are a function of my selfish attachment to the other person, I found I was able to let go. I still love my ex, but truly loving them means allowing them to be happy with or without you. Your wanting the relationship is all about you, not the other person, not love.
August 13th, 2009 on 10:15 pm
What’s wrong with it being all about you?
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August 13th, 2009 on 10:17 pm
Time is magic…
August 14th, 2009 on 2:17 am
Lol. If it’s all about you, that may have something to do with how your heart came to be broken in the first place. Second, suffering is a function of attachment, so if you want to cure that broken heart you need to let go of the attachment: allowing yourself to think of your ex’s best interest may be a means to that end.
December 22nd, 2009 on 8:12 pm
The fact that it’s “all about me” eliminates the illusion that the ‘relationship was meant to be’, which can prolong the pain.
August 7th, 2009 on 5:56 am
I’m genuinely sorry. I would not wish this pain and anguish on my worst enemy.
I wish I could wave a magic wand and everything would be fine. I wish I could give you a pill to take to cure the multitude of unwanted feelings and thoughts you are having. I’m sorry but I can’t do those things.
What I have tried to do is gather together in one place as much information and ideas to help you cope and ultimately feel better. I’ve used a lot of the ideas myself and whilst I was feeling down I created this website to try to help others while helping myself.
I hope you will find comfort in knowing you are not alone and find some ways to help you patch up the pieces of your shattered heart.
August 8th, 2009 on 11:20 pm
I’m okay. Its thanks to the concepts of Zen Buddhism, realizing my pain was a function of attachment that let me realize what I needed to do was let go. Loving the partner that left me means wishing him the best even if it means he’s alone or with someone else.
September 17th, 2009 on 2:59 pm
You have a very good outlook and I know you will ultimately be okay. It’s just an old saying but true from my experience – time heals all wounds.