Love & Sex Magic
by Michael Robin Cooke on Apr.02, 2009, under Kitschchaos
This is naturally, a response to the Google advertising on this site. I appreciate the ads, and encourage you to take advantage of any offers that seem promising to you. But, at the same time, they are educational. Google knows people looking into magic, are looking for sex and money. This site fairly covers the ‘money’, but what of sex and romance?
Sigil magic is versitile enough for any desire. Here’s the updated article on sigil magic you should be reading instead of the blog post.
Love magic does relate to money magic, our hormones engender such tremendous will such that focus on another goal can be compromised. So that’s how I’m justifying this post.
Now, classic love magic is manipulative magic. Based on sympathetic magic, you may work with a ‘psychic link’ such as the hair or soiled undergarments of the person you desire. A simple and effective Hoodoo formula involves personal concerns, such as menstrual blood, urine or semen – add this in a minute quantity to the food or drink you offer your desired person and it can attach them emotionally to you.
To my thinking such magic is manipulative and is likely to cause suffering. Yes, it is effective. But such magic is trusting your choice to be the right one, and few people are rational or know themselves so well as to choose well.
The key to magic is to figure out what you really want. The person you desire lives inside a fantasy of who that person can be for you. There’s a gulf between your imagination and any other specific person. But your fantasy does represent desire.
So get real for a moment. The person you desire, if they are not yours it’s likely you don’t represent the person they desire. If you work with this reality and allow your attachment to dissipate , then you can get what you want. Why? Because of the principle of chaos – whoever you are, there are people that desire you!
Direct magic to find you the person you desire that also desires you! This is a principle of using magic to work a likely path to fulfilment. If you open the field of romantic candidates to all possibility, magic will work to find you a lover that will give you what you want! And even if you’re in the midst of a flirtatious relationship, such magic will confirm the promise of the relationship – or deliver a new person to you if it’s not in reality a path to happiness for you!
Conclusion:
The ‘manipulative’ magic of Hoodoo does have its place. If you are married and want to keep your husband or wife, classic love magic is not inappropriate. Such magic serves a vow already agreed to, if nothing else.
In practical terms what makes a person unattractive is attachment to result. If you are a man or a women dating someone that is clearly projecting the desire for marriage or even simply sex – it instantly brings forth your resistance and defence mechanisms. It’s popular common knowledge that married people get his on more frequently than single people – the simple explanation is this: married people are not looking!
So a magic that can exorcise the desire can be useful, so it doesn’t consume you and sabotage your possibilities. The principles of law of attraction, applied to focusing your thought and conscious belief in positive magical outcomes generally – can be helpful here.
Blind sigil magic is extremely effective, but it may not effect your attachment. So in the case of sex magic you may want to compromise the blindness of the practice.
If you want a traditional Hoodoo love spell, here’s an online resource for the real thing. Any candle you’re working with can be inscribed with your love sigil for extra power.
If you’re plugged into the Chaos magic paradigm and are very comfortable doing your magic freestyle (after doing Hoodoo for a while you may become comfortable with improvisation as well) here are some guidelines. Use as many or as few ideas as you please.
- The numerological ideal number is ‘2′, the number of sex, relationships. You may choose to perform the magic on a date that reduces to ‘2′. Numerological info here. If waxing moon, you can use it to gain love, if waning you can ‘lose loneliness’. Ignoring the moon has not hurt many magics – so is up to you if you want to pay attention to it or not.
- Sigils may be burned in a candle, etched on a candle to burn through, placed beneath a candle to be consumed once the entire candle is consumed..etc.
- visualize the romantic and sexual connection. Act it out with figurines, lodestones (magnetite – ‘male’ has points, ‘female’ is rounded – bring two appropriate lodestones together, their attraction can be sympathetic magic for your spell – they can be ‘fed’ with ‘magnetic sand’ (Iron filings).
- Red candles for passion, white for love and commitment, use either or both.
- you can ‘dress’ the candles with oil, wipe oil on candle from the center of the candle to both ends. http://lucky mojo.com, they sell authentic Hoodoo oil formulations. You can use scented oil (Cinnamon, Rose, Violet, Vanilla, Lavender, Patchouli, Sage – all have Hoodoo love associations) – but if essential oils, use rubber gloves to apply to candle as they can be skin irritants sometimes.
- Sexual orgasm is always a good way to launch a sigil or magic spell, this is doubly so for a spell relating to love and/or sex.
- incense, either a Hoodoo love incense or choose one with one of the following scents (all are associated with Love/Sex/Romance in the Hoodoo tradition) : Cinnamon, Rose, Violet, Vanilla, Lavender, Patchouli, Sage.
- Personal concerns, blood, semen, vaginal juices – candles offer opportunities for acting out sexual sympathetic magic for some people.
YES, having another person cast a love spell on your behalf is often extremely effective. I do recommend you don’t use this option to target a specific person unless you’re married to them.
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April 4th, 2009 on 11:30 pm[...] magic spells relating to sex, see my sex magic post. Again, procure a psychic link for your spell. I strongly recommend you use this magic exclusively [...]
April 10th, 2009 on 4:24 am
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April 15th, 2009 on 12:52 pm
Keep working ,great job!
June 5th, 2009 on 8:13 am
Yopu have some great articles here…
July 15th, 2009 on 11:22 am
There are some fairly unique ideas here.I understand that the number 8 is also one of the “special” lucky numbers. I particularly like patchouli oil generally so may well recommend these ideas.
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July 15th, 2009 on 3:59 pm
Very Interesting, never released there were this many types of magic but then again I’m just starting to look.
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July 19th, 2009 on 6:05 pm
menstrual blood, urine or semen – add this in a minute quantity to the food or drink you offer your desired person
Yuck, How about putting a pubes in their food ? Do you think that would that do the trick ?
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July 25th, 2009 on 10:43 pm
If you’re a man and are targeting someone for sex and are afraid to let them taste your semen….
July 21st, 2009 on 6:41 pm
Awesome point on the Google ads, very educational.
It is so true, imho, anyone who looking for magic is usually interested in sex and money.
But isn’t that just the way life is?
The magic of money gives us freedom to live our life as we please.
Living our life as we please makes it easier for us to be open to the magic of love.
When we have love and money the magic of sex can happen at the snap of our fingers. =)
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July 25th, 2009 on 6:59 pm
Any help for healing a broken heart or replace a lost love?
July 25th, 2009 on 9:49 pm
I’ll make this the subject for a new post, thanks.
August 6th, 2009 on 8:07 am
Are those “sigil” last forever or just a moment and it will just fade? hmmmm… only to find out that the person you are casting those magic spells came to realize that he is not really attracted to you. That might hurt more…
August 6th, 2009 on 1:39 pm
Sigil magic, think of it like putting an idea in a collective unconscious and it manifesting through synchronicity, butterfly effect if you will.
It may be possible to use magic to attract a partner that wouldn’t be attracted to you normally – but keeping such a person, that may have to be done magically as well. It can become exhaustive and I do not recommend it.
Use the sigil magic to find the right partner, the person who really can love you without the magic, that you can love in return. Then the power of the sigil can yield a lifetime lasting effect.
October 3rd, 2009 on 8:35 pm
Money is better than poverty, if only for financial reasons.